Mary Lillibell McCreight
The family called my mother, Lill. In her eyes, there was no one quite
like her brother Bruce. She went to a female seminary at Greensburg,
Pennsylvania. Her cousins, the Detars and Uncaphers lived there, and
they made her school years happy ones. She married Ambrose John Quinlan
in 1892. She shocked her family to its Presbyterian roots by marrying a
Catholic. They eloped. While on the train, they discovered a detective
was on their trail, thanks to a friend, who was the conductor. So they
left the train near the state line, cut thru a cornfield, and were
married at Limestone, New York.
It's
incredible to me, considering his hectic entrance into the family
circle, how quickly Dad became an integral part of it. Eliza loved him
as one of her own, and Uncle Bruce and Uncle Joe were closer than his
own brothers. His vacation time was spent hunting or fishing with them,
while Mother and I visited the family. We looked forward to their
visits to Ohio, just as eagerly.
After piping gas to Akron from
West Virginia, Dad was the foreman of the East Ohio Gas Company for
many years. Later, he was the manager of the West Cleveland branch of
the company. Not liking inside work, he settled for leasing for the
company until his death. He was Akron's first Grand Knight of Columbus.
At first, Mother hated Akron and spelled it with a small 'a'. So far as
she was concerned, there was only one state in the union, Pennsylvania.
It made her mad to see a car from there in Ohio when the leaves were
turning. She should have been a clothes designer. My suits and school
togs made me very thankful for having so talented a mother. The minute
I took home economics, and graduated from Aunt Lill's kitchen, Mother
was thru with cooking. However, while I was at the U., she did break
over for sorority spreads every week. She said she escalloped enough
potatoes to pave Market Street.
Dad gave me a fine English bull
terrier puppy. Her name was Bill. Dad made a bed for her including
springs, mattress and a blanket. She was lodged in the corner of our
kitchen. A little later, he bought a few Rhode Island Red chicks. Their
box was first placed in our brick garage. It turned chilly, so we bro't
them into the kitchen temporarily. Bill became their mother. They had
to have mashed hard-boiled eggs. Bill licked the plate. For the rest of
her long life she had two mashed hard-boiled eggs daily. The chicks
were soon given to friends in the country. Every night Dad covered
Bill. If she got uncovered, up she went to nudge Dad's hand. He
followed her downstairs and covered her, without really waking.
Life
was never dull with Dad and Mother. She said they might have been mad
at one another, but they were never bored. Dad raised beautiful dahlias
and asters, and he did not appreciate your picking any with buds. So,
on one of his birthdays, I filled a long celery dish with lavender and
pink aster blossoms for the table. Mother took one look, crossed her
hands over her breast, and said, "At rest". I told her if she died
before did, I'd remember and laugh, and I did. Thank heaven for
memories that can make us chuckle thru tears.
My husband died in
1924 of pneumonia, while on a business trip. My two children and I
lived with Dad and Mother. I was thankful they had made it possible for
me to have my Ph.B. They now cared for all of us, while I started on a
degree in education so I could teach. Luckily a friend of Mother's was
president of the Akron Board of Education. She made it possible for me
to start teaching in September. I did get the degree, thanks to
Mother's caring for the children. They adored Dad, too. He took them on
long drives. They had their first boat ride at Turkey Foot Lake, where
our friends, the Smiths, lived. Jack learned to paddle their canoe, and
both youngsters loved skimming around Turkey Foot Lake in their launch.
My
father died in August of 1928. Uncle Bruce, Aunt Lill, Uncle Joe and
Aunt Sally were the first of the family to come, and the last to leave.
The
children called Mother, "Nan", and Nan she became to most of us. She'd
get in any car no matter where it was going, and she expected to be
invited whenever a wheel turned. Dad and I spoiled her. We always took
her with us. She had a great sense of humor, and related some of the
ridiculous situations she got herself into. She decided she wanted a
small apartment of her own in Reynoldsville, where some of our family
lived, as well as many of her life-long friends. So, she got one right
downtown. My son and a fraternity brother, took the furniture she
chose, and got her settled. By that time, I was teaching in Shaker
Heights, and if I couldn't leave to pick her up, she'd hop a bus right
at her apartment, knowing I'd be at the terminal to meet her. During
winter, she wore galoshes that had small cleat heels attached to them,
that could be flipped down where the walking was treacherous. She
couldn't get them in Reynoldsville, so she decided "to contrive". She
drove many long tacks thru the heels of her new boots. Sharp cleats,
she had! Like Eliza, when the shrill shriek of the fire whistle shattered
the rest of the slumbering tow, Nan, in her boots, dashed down the long
flight of wooden stairs. She came down more heavily on each step. When
she got to the bottom, she reached for the door. She couldn't budge.
She was nailed fast to the floor! She had just as much fun telling
about her frustration, as we had hearing about it.
One morning
she knew it was a good day to fix clocks. That night one alarm clock
was missing. However, she spied my Hamilton watch that I intended to
take to Webb C. Ball Co. for cleaning. She opened the back and knew
she'd solved the problem. She said, "It just had a hair in it." She had
pulled out its mainspring.
After a cataract removal, she thought
she should use a cane, but she didn't know how. She went into the dime
store, thru whose portals most of Reynoldsville passes daily. She was
at the counter where shelves were filled with nail polish and various
small bottles. A friend came by and spoke to her. Nan wheeled around to
greet her. Her cane swept the shelves clean as bottles flew. Nan
whirled back to correct the havoc she had wrought and as she turned,
the cane knocked the cap off a small boy. It wasn't her day. She tossed
the cane.
Mother died in 1960. She is buried in the Morningside
Cemetery at DuBois, Pennsylvania, where Uncle Bruce reserved a place
for her with the family.
B. 1 April 1873 † D. 6 December 1960
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